@why i guess it just comes across as using the fact you're gay or trans or whatever as a substitute for a personality in some cases
@why idk i guess its kind of like otaku who have a bunch of imagery for their hobby like logos, characters, slogans, etc (using the term broadly to mean any interest, not just anime/videogame) which can also be kinda cringe sometimes but at least that's broadcasting something about their interests and personality instead of just IM GAY/TRANS/POLY